Illness and death of loved ones is devastating for anyone at any age. We are specifically gathering young adults because we’ve found that the experience of grief in this community comes with its own unique isolation that we want to help undo. Young adults are often among the first in their peer group to lose someone close, which leaves them without someone to turn to who can say, “I know something of this grief.” Also, grief support geared specifically towards young adults is scarce in comparison to grief support for older adults and children. We want to connect young adults to volunteer grief workers who can offer company in the wild ride of grief and to other young adults who can say “me too.”
Yes, absolutely. Loss takes many forms beyond illness and physical death — life-altering changes in employment, housing, education and training, and access to stability and predictability are all especially present during this pandemic. We hope for everyone to receive the support they need in navigating these various forms of grief. For now, with our limited resources and capacities, we are responding directly to the swelling of life-threatening illness and death from COVID-19. We are focusing on specific grief for a specific crowd so we can do that really well.
The network is organized by volunteers. We are a group of therapists, chaplains, and community organizers who saw an emerging need and decided to respond with this network. Many of us are young adults who have experienced big personal losses ourselves, and know how powerful it can be to have company in grief. This network is a representation of the community we need and are helping to create in the world.
The network was inspired and supported in part by the leadership of the NYC COVID Care Network and RUACH: Emotional and Spiritual Support. We are grateful for the individuals who consulted with us and for our ongoing partnerships.
For a complete list of the network organizers and affiliates, please click here.